KATES_MOM
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Well as some of you may remember, Kate was sent off once again to a Residential Treatment Facility (RTF) 2.5 hours aways from our home. This was on Nov. 6-06.
She went through some very rough times there. But made progress. After about seven months they felt Kate was good to go. Her home visits went wonderful the course of the months. I brought her home on June 16th. We had a great honey moon period for 2 months.
Things with Kate started to slip slowly, then they progressed rather rapidly. She was back to her verbal, and physical abuse on us. I reminded Kate often about the agreement we had befor coming home. NO hitting, No disrespect.The deal was she would have to leave again. For about a month this behavior continued.
We have family based home therapy all this time also.
Kate came home from school looking for a fight with me as she had most of the last month. It was over food this time she wanted what I didnt have, I guess she wanted me to poof this food out. One thing lead to another and I lost it!
I screamed at her and demanded her out of my house. I couldnt take it anymore. Told her to pack her bags, and get the H*ll out. To call her dad. She did, he picked her up and thats where she is to this day. Its only been about a week now.
Now if you remember dad has never helped with Kate one bit through the years when it came to Kate's mental health care.
Didnt want a thing to do with it. Also dad now has a crazy girlfiend since June. He plans to marry this Dec. They live together. This woman has burned easy child with a cig. on the forehead in Aug. after a pisted off fit. I got pics! He and her both claim it was an accident. easy child and Kate , also easy child friend were all there when this happened and all say this was no accident.
Now crazy woman and ex are telling Kate all kinds of stuff about me. That a mother who loves her kid would never throw her out, stuff like this.
Also have tried to convince easy child to move in. This woman has no kids, never been married she is 41!! Ex has told Kate she doesnt have to do therapy anymore. They closed that case out. He is checking in on if she has to keep taking her medications. If this happens I will step in! Since our divorce 11 years ago we have had a verbal agreement on the kids. Joint cust., I am the primary care giver. They have had this address for that period of time.
I am very mad!!! But I want this to play out for Kate. She has conflict with anyone sooner or later. I just pray she doesnt get hurt by someone elses physical abuse. When things go to h*ll in a hand bag there. Then I am ready for bear! Everything will be legal. Even child suport. Maybe he can be out of their lives for good. But Kate will have to get more help again. I dont plan on giving up on her. psychiatrist she goes to now since her return had added to her diagnosis, she now had personality disorder(4) in which she falls under. I am not very happy with that. But Residential Treatment Facility (RTF) psychiatrist also suspected this too. My God what happend to my little girl?????? I am taking this time away to regroup and conserve some energy. I hope to keep you all updated more. Talk later, Kathy
She went through some very rough times there. But made progress. After about seven months they felt Kate was good to go. Her home visits went wonderful the course of the months. I brought her home on June 16th. We had a great honey moon period for 2 months.
Things with Kate started to slip slowly, then they progressed rather rapidly. She was back to her verbal, and physical abuse on us. I reminded Kate often about the agreement we had befor coming home. NO hitting, No disrespect.The deal was she would have to leave again. For about a month this behavior continued.
We have family based home therapy all this time also.
Kate came home from school looking for a fight with me as she had most of the last month. It was over food this time she wanted what I didnt have, I guess she wanted me to poof this food out. One thing lead to another and I lost it!
I screamed at her and demanded her out of my house. I couldnt take it anymore. Told her to pack her bags, and get the H*ll out. To call her dad. She did, he picked her up and thats where she is to this day. Its only been about a week now.
Now if you remember dad has never helped with Kate one bit through the years when it came to Kate's mental health care.
Didnt want a thing to do with it. Also dad now has a crazy girlfiend since June. He plans to marry this Dec. They live together. This woman has burned easy child with a cig. on the forehead in Aug. after a pisted off fit. I got pics! He and her both claim it was an accident. easy child and Kate , also easy child friend were all there when this happened and all say this was no accident.
Now crazy woman and ex are telling Kate all kinds of stuff about me. That a mother who loves her kid would never throw her out, stuff like this.
Also have tried to convince easy child to move in. This woman has no kids, never been married she is 41!! Ex has told Kate she doesnt have to do therapy anymore. They closed that case out. He is checking in on if she has to keep taking her medications. If this happens I will step in! Since our divorce 11 years ago we have had a verbal agreement on the kids. Joint cust., I am the primary care giver. They have had this address for that period of time.
I am very mad!!! But I want this to play out for Kate. She has conflict with anyone sooner or later. I just pray she doesnt get hurt by someone elses physical abuse. When things go to h*ll in a hand bag there. Then I am ready for bear! Everything will be legal. Even child suport. Maybe he can be out of their lives for good. But Kate will have to get more help again. I dont plan on giving up on her. psychiatrist she goes to now since her return had added to her diagnosis, she now had personality disorder(4) in which she falls under. I am not very happy with that. But Residential Treatment Facility (RTF) psychiatrist also suspected this too. My God what happend to my little girl?????? I am taking this time away to regroup and conserve some energy. I hope to keep you all updated more. Talk later, Kathy