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<blockquote data-quote="wolonfab" data-source="post: 13862" data-attributes="member: 2797"><p>Hi all</p><p></p><p>we have been to the appoint with the pediatric psychiatrist.... she was ok...she wanted me to describe a recent event where he was violent very in depth....lots of description etc..... did i see it coming, did he look angry, what precipitated it..... blah blah blah..... we talked about what i have tried and she told me my son is in control of my house and life...she said we have to come up with a new strategy for home...... (i think she thinks i am letting him away with murder and that this is all my fault... :smile: maybe it is ..I am strict but when it comes to having a full blown rage i would rather not keep pushing him..... don't look like they see anything else there )she then talked about summarizing findings for next appoint .....</p><p></p><p>mum said while i was in the appoint and she had him he hit his head against the wall (not autistic rocking type but hurt self type)and tried to get sister to do it too...he was yelling, and racing around and everyone was looking at him... she said he was a nightmare to deal with /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/919Mad.gif</p><p></p><p>psychiatrist took the time to talk to difficult child alone as i told her i think my son hates me and would be happy if i died...she said he has high anxiety.....he drew some pics for her on the board of his family when asked (they say for being autistic he is very engaging and quite willing to talk while alone with them) and afterwards she and the phsycologist went off to confer about what to do next.....she decided that she needs to spend some time with him in play, observing, talking etc.... she has booked a min of 3x 1 hour appointments with her.......Not sure why and what this means? if it was nothing would she bother? is she checking for something or is because its just methat cant deal with my son and she wants proof? </p><p></p><p></p><p>psychiatrist is ringing our paed to discuss medications again as difficult child is still on tofranil..Mum says he is fine on ritalin (but not in my eyes cause he tried to hurt himself...He was calmer but not less aggressive).....we went back to mums and jay became a little monster, hitting me, being rude, getting his sister to do things that he isn't allowed to do .....he screamed bloody murder when i touched him cause he was naughty.... I decided that if its my fault that he is this way then i have to get even tougher and so i smacked him back.... He was exhausted though and feel asleep on way home from mums.....</p><p></p><p>:bravo: the new school are going for more funding for him... this time risk and transition funding...the old school told them he was a great kid and no trouble.... (Huh?) he was introduced this morning to his teacher and the heads etc.... he was very quiet and very nervous.. wonder how he will be when he gets home :hammer:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="wolonfab, post: 13862, member: 2797"] Hi all we have been to the appoint with the pediatric psychiatrist.... she was ok...she wanted me to describe a recent event where he was violent very in depth....lots of description etc..... did i see it coming, did he look angry, what precipitated it..... blah blah blah..... we talked about what i have tried and she told me my son is in control of my house and life...she said we have to come up with a new strategy for home...... (i think she thinks i am letting him away with murder and that this is all my fault... [img]:smile:[/img] maybe it is ..I am strict but when it comes to having a full blown rage i would rather not keep pushing him..... don't look like they see anything else there )she then talked about summarizing findings for next appoint ..... mum said while i was in the appoint and she had him he hit his head against the wall (not autistic rocking type but hurt self type)and tried to get sister to do it too...he was yelling, and racing around and everyone was looking at him... she said he was a nightmare to deal with [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/919Mad.gif[/img] psychiatrist took the time to talk to difficult child alone as i told her i think my son hates me and would be happy if i died...she said he has high anxiety.....he drew some pics for her on the board of his family when asked (they say for being autistic he is very engaging and quite willing to talk while alone with them) and afterwards she and the phsycologist went off to confer about what to do next.....she decided that she needs to spend some time with him in play, observing, talking etc.... she has booked a min of 3x 1 hour appointments with her.......Not sure why and what this means? if it was nothing would she bother? is she checking for something or is because its just methat cant deal with my son and she wants proof? psychiatrist is ringing our paed to discuss medications again as difficult child is still on tofranil..Mum says he is fine on ritalin (but not in my eyes cause he tried to hurt himself...He was calmer but not less aggressive).....we went back to mums and jay became a little monster, hitting me, being rude, getting his sister to do things that he isn't allowed to do .....he screamed bloody murder when i touched him cause he was naughty.... I decided that if its my fault that he is this way then i have to get even tougher and so i smacked him back.... He was exhausted though and feel asleep on way home from mums..... [img]:bravo:[/img] the new school are going for more funding for him... this time risk and transition funding...the old school told them he was a great kid and no trouble.... (Huh?) he was introduced this morning to his teacher and the heads etc.... he was very quiet and very nervous.. wonder how he will be when he gets home [img]:hammer:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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