We got a call on our cellphone when we were shopping Saturday and it was difficult child talking on one of the other guy's cellphone. husband answered the phone and was talking to difficult child. husband asked if support coach was there and he wanted me to talk to the support coach to find out how things were going. I asked the support coach why difficult child's cellphone was taken away from him and he proceeded to tell me that difficult child smashed it on the floor in to pieces because the Bucs lost their game on Dec 7th. I told him we were not replacing the phone and difficult child would have to pay contract till it ended in March. He then told me that they bought a pound of ham for lunchmeat and difficult child ate it ALL! Support coach bought three boxes of cupcakes and difficult child ate them ALL! Support coach bought a case of soda and difficult child drank all but four. difficult child has threatened to stab them and to stab himself. So I guess support coordinator and behaviorist were wrong thinking that he was just acting that way with us. They can not do anything with his medications until Jan 3rd when the temp placement runs out and he is placed on a permenant tier. They were allowing him to take his own medications but then they found out he was not taking them and now they watch him take it with water and have him open his mouth to check. We plan on picking difficult child up on Dec 24th and take him back later on Dec 25th and the same for Dec 31st and take him back on Jan 1st. We will let him know that when he comes home the first time he steps out of line .....we will be taking him back to the apartment. I just have this mother's intuition that my difficult child will be placed in a group home since he is having to be watched so closely for his behaviors. I know he will not like the stricter rules that they have but they have to do what they have to do.