I can't that you all enough for your support last week. You may remember my 22 yr old son punched a huge hole in our wall. I made him sign a contract and have given him one month to change his attitude or get out. Any more violence and I will have him arrested. I have also written to and phoned his doctor. He has been on the waiting list to see a psychologist since January. They are going to call him Wednesday and are discussing his case at the end of the week. I told them he is going to hurt someone soon and that made them take notice. He still won't speak to his brother though. It's just so sad. The effects are still with me. Racing heart every time I see him or think of him, the shakes, feel sick and a flushed face. I don't know if he is sick or just bad. I am an abused parent - how could my own child treat me like this?