About two weeks ago, I posted that Missy was having a problem with a girl who sat next to her. The teacher moved the girl. Since then, Missy has been much more like the typical 7 year old when she comes home. She's much less agitated. She is still having rages, but they have decreased considerably. Anyhow, I had also posted that the girl's mom had called and wanted to "have her daughter speak to mine" but was being very evasive with me and never told me what it was about. I had toyed with sending a note to teacher, but thought it would be better if I spoke to the mother and perhaps set up a playdate or something. Last week, I ran into another woman who happens to be involved with this girl and her mother. I inquired about them and was told to just stay away. The girl is just a mean kid and a bully. She had to apologize to her entire class last year for being a bully (Missy must have been out sick, because she never told me about this). Also the mother is pretty full of herself. She's rude and self-centered, among a few other adjectives. So, I had to speak to the teacher last week, regarding Missy's test grades. I informed her that this woman had called. The teacher was a little shocked. I have not called the woman and I won't.