Hi All, Just wanted to update you all on "what's been happening" with us.:crazy1: I've been extremely busy at work. So much so that my Personal improvement plan is to "leave on time". Due to the extended hours that I have been putting in, I have had no extra time to read or write any posts, which is why I've sort of been MIA. Due to the huge amount of time I used to be posting.....it seems husband and I have sort of fallen out of like with each other. Good news is we understand it and are doing our best to support each other and find our way back to either where we were before, or hopefully a better area. difficult child 1 is in school and should be finishing up soon. He went to school for building maintenance so hopefully he will become gainfully employed soon. I do not think he has stopped using which will have quite an impact on his hiring ability but.....I like SOC feel that detached feeling so much more now. easy child/difficult child 2 has been employed fulltime know for 6mo. He seems to be accepting adult responsibility more. He calls husband on his own and is building his own relationship with him. He'll be 21 in 6mo and I think he's the closest I can call to easy child. He's fun to be around. husband is well....a husband. He wants the whole world to be about him and when it's not he gets irritated. He works hard and understands that we've put in alot of years together and financially and emotionally it wouldn't be in anyone's best interest to leave. So....I can tell he's trying hard to work on himself. I stop in when I can. As always...thinking of you all.