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<blockquote data-quote="Albatross" data-source="post: 681931" data-attributes="member: 17720"><p>Hmmm...tough one. He HAS come a long way. You want to acknowledge that. He's been doing great since you stepped back, but might that partly or largely be BECAUSE you stepped back? And I don't really think you can "buy" the right to speak your mind, or guarantee that it won't happen again. That's out of your control. Having your power shut off is a natural consequence of having deadbeat roommates. I would probably let the chips fall where they may. What you're doing is working, so why change it? Once the power is off, maybe the roomie and girlfriend will see there is no free ride here. If you step in, what motivation would they have to step up?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Albatross, post: 681931, member: 17720"] Hmmm...tough one. He HAS come a long way. You want to acknowledge that. He's been doing great since you stepped back, but might that partly or largely be BECAUSE you stepped back? And I don't really think you can "buy" the right to speak your mind, or guarantee that it won't happen again. That's out of your control. Having your power shut off is a natural consequence of having deadbeat roommates. I would probably let the chips fall where they may. What you're doing is working, so why change it? Once the power is off, maybe the roomie and girlfriend will see there is no free ride here. If you step in, what motivation would they have to step up? [/QUOTE]
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