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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 659433" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Glad to hear so many things are going well for you.</p><p></p><p>About helping him, while interfering in what he is doing may not be a wise move right now, you can always keep in mind, that if he continues in the right path couple years and gets his feet under him, maybe you can help him then. He will still be in process of launching his life and if he is steadily doing well then, your help may be greatly appreciated, and used wisely, in that point.</p><p></p><p>I also understand well your need for keeping yourself safe, but it is still very good that he does ask about you. Have you considered maybe giving him some details about your life, not place where you live or work, if your are not comfortable with that, but for example a bit about extended family news, some activity you did, about your pets, tv show or movie you saw, something like that. Just to build a conversation pattern that is more give and take than just about him. You are building a new relationship with him and if he continues to do well, you likely will not be happy long term, if that relationship is just about him, so no need to get him used to that now.</p><p></p><p>Good luck with new business too!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 659433, member: 14557"] Glad to hear so many things are going well for you. About helping him, while interfering in what he is doing may not be a wise move right now, you can always keep in mind, that if he continues in the right path couple years and gets his feet under him, maybe you can help him then. He will still be in process of launching his life and if he is steadily doing well then, your help may be greatly appreciated, and used wisely, in that point. I also understand well your need for keeping yourself safe, but it is still very good that he does ask about you. Have you considered maybe giving him some details about your life, not place where you live or work, if your are not comfortable with that, but for example a bit about extended family news, some activity you did, about your pets, tv show or movie you saw, something like that. Just to build a conversation pattern that is more give and take than just about him. You are building a new relationship with him and if he continues to do well, you likely will not be happy long term, if that relationship is just about him, so no need to get him used to that now. Good luck with new business too! [/QUOTE]
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