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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 748650" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>New Leaf, my prayers go out to you and your daughter and I shake my head. You cant risk yourself. You cant. I cant. None of usc But we do. Until we get a big S.O.S.</p><p></p><p>I made Kay leave ny house but bought her her own house. Was I stupid? My compliant Husband too? It was ac house but in a good area. The mortgage was so low. They were responsible for paying less than some rentals. Lee had a decent job then. Well, Kay wouldnt work andh husband Lee didnt pay. Suspect pot, other drugs and a weed garden took their money and house. If that hadnt been.stupid enough of us we then gave in, out of fear for them being homeless, and paid money down for a new single wide mobile home. They would not pay the small lot fee and had several domestic fights in public and wild parties with crazy people until they ended up being warned to behave by the owner. They then sold the by then run down mh for $1000. We paid apartment rent after that and when Kay got pregnant she played us for all we had left.</p><p></p><p>One day Lee came over and was drunk and threatened to kill us. Believe it or not we were still enabling and did not want Jadens father in jail. Weg along well with Lee's poor parents so we called them to talk Lee down. They are not on good terms but they were able to come over and get him away from us. Then we all cried together as Lee went home in an uber, too drunk to drive home. Few words. Hugs and tears.</p><p></p><p>This was when we stopped giving out money or help unless it was to buy Jaden diapers.</p><p></p><p>Even the worst enablers get it most of the time someday. Our kids have nasty friends and are often dangerous too. I believe Lee and Kay are both capable of hurting us. They slap each other. A lot. Can we ever know they wont do us harm? And tje baby! The cops have never taken.him because their domestic fights don't include Jaden so far thank God. But I am wondering if the.cops ever called cps them. I dont know which makese wonder if I should. Or if that would only make it worse.</p><p></p><p>Thanks for your post. I hope it helps you to know that your sharing helped me remember that these particular types of kids can have dangerous associates. Or be dangerous and hurt us. It is so hard for me to look at the old picture of my beautiful girl as a chubby cheeked child with sparkling eyes and remember that she is no longer that sweet little girl.</p><p></p><p>I hope one day God touches our girls. Until then we must fight through the pain, one step at a time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 748650, member: 23706"] New Leaf, my prayers go out to you and your daughter and I shake my head. You cant risk yourself. You cant. I cant. None of usc But we do. Until we get a big S.O.S. I made Kay leave ny house but bought her her own house. Was I stupid? My compliant Husband too? It was ac house but in a good area. The mortgage was so low. They were responsible for paying less than some rentals. Lee had a decent job then. Well, Kay wouldnt work andh husband Lee didnt pay. Suspect pot, other drugs and a weed garden took their money and house. If that hadnt been.stupid enough of us we then gave in, out of fear for them being homeless, and paid money down for a new single wide mobile home. They would not pay the small lot fee and had several domestic fights in public and wild parties with crazy people until they ended up being warned to behave by the owner. They then sold the by then run down mh for $1000. We paid apartment rent after that and when Kay got pregnant she played us for all we had left. One day Lee came over and was drunk and threatened to kill us. Believe it or not we were still enabling and did not want Jadens father in jail. Weg along well with Lee's poor parents so we called them to talk Lee down. They are not on good terms but they were able to come over and get him away from us. Then we all cried together as Lee went home in an uber, too drunk to drive home. Few words. Hugs and tears. This was when we stopped giving out money or help unless it was to buy Jaden diapers. Even the worst enablers get it most of the time someday. Our kids have nasty friends and are often dangerous too. I believe Lee and Kay are both capable of hurting us. They slap each other. A lot. Can we ever know they wont do us harm? And tje baby! The cops have never taken.him because their domestic fights don't include Jaden so far thank God. But I am wondering if the.cops ever called cps them. I dont know which makese wonder if I should. Or if that would only make it worse. Thanks for your post. I hope it helps you to know that your sharing helped me remember that these particular types of kids can have dangerous associates. Or be dangerous and hurt us. It is so hard for me to look at the old picture of my beautiful girl as a chubby cheeked child with sparkling eyes and remember that she is no longer that sweet little girl. I hope one day God touches our girls. Until then we must fight through the pain, one step at a time. [/QUOTE]
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