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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 691734" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I agree with Apple. Let him say whatever he wants. Consider the source. It may be true or false, but keep an even keel. It does not matter what he says, really. For now. The important thing is for you to stay centered an calm, and to let him do what he wants, reacting as little as you can.</p><p></p><p>You see, they are used to rocking our world. The task now is to no longer rock. He thinks your sun rises and sets on him, for him.</p><p>Make that no longer the case.</p><p>I would be real nervous. I would wonder what he wants. I would fear that he wants you to begin to rescue or take responsibility for him in some way. Don't.</p><p></p><p>Actually, my real fear might be that he is using again. Why else would he all of a sudden begin to manipulate?</p><p></p><p>The thing is what can you do, really? He believes he knows best, knows it all. Let him play this out. That is what I would do.</p><p></p><p>I hope I am wrong. I just do not believe people change this quickly. Usually.</p><p></p><p>And the illegal aliens comment concerns me, too. This does not indicate a desire to take responsibility for one's situation or actions.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 691734, member: 18958"] I agree with Apple. Let him say whatever he wants. Consider the source. It may be true or false, but keep an even keel. It does not matter what he says, really. For now. The important thing is for you to stay centered an calm, and to let him do what he wants, reacting as little as you can. You see, they are used to rocking our world. The task now is to no longer rock. He thinks your sun rises and sets on him, for him. Make that no longer the case. I would be real nervous. I would wonder what he wants. I would fear that he wants you to begin to rescue or take responsibility for him in some way. Don't. Actually, my real fear might be that he is using again. Why else would he all of a sudden begin to manipulate? The thing is what can you do, really? He believes he knows best, knows it all. Let him play this out. That is what I would do. I hope I am wrong. I just do not believe people change this quickly. Usually. And the illegal aliens comment concerns me, too. This does not indicate a desire to take responsibility for one's situation or actions. [/QUOTE]
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