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<blockquote data-quote="Stress Bunny" data-source="post: 626209" data-attributes="member: 4855"><p>Echo,</p><p></p><p>I can't reconcile what I would hope for with the reality of what is. So, it is impossible, I think. I really don't want a relationship in this current state of affairs. Does that make me an awful person? I feel so sad and regretful that this is how everything is turning out. JT maintains an incredible sense of entitlement. He believes he has a right to be in our life and to attend family functions, etc.; to be accepted no matter what he says or does. But the truth is, he has damaged the relationship so much with his behavior and words, that we no longer have anything left to give him. He has only taken. It has been one-way.</p><p></p><p>I am proud of myself when I don't respond to his texts. I have changed over the past two years since he's taken us on this unwanted ride of his. I am detaching. I can more clearly see what is happening, and best of all, I am freeing myself of the guilt and sense of responsibility I have felt for his actions. I still struggle to find peace on a daily basis. I fantasize about going away - far away to someplace tropical where I could get away physically and emotionally in a new setting; someplace where the biggest worry would be watching out for falling coconuts.</p><p></p><p>Stressy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Stress Bunny, post: 626209, member: 4855"] Echo, I can't reconcile what I would hope for with the reality of what is. So, it is impossible, I think. I really don't want a relationship in this current state of affairs. Does that make me an awful person? I feel so sad and regretful that this is how everything is turning out. JT maintains an incredible sense of entitlement. He believes he has a right to be in our life and to attend family functions, etc.; to be accepted no matter what he says or does. But the truth is, he has damaged the relationship so much with his behavior and words, that we no longer have anything left to give him. He has only taken. It has been one-way. I am proud of myself when I don't respond to his texts. I have changed over the past two years since he's taken us on this unwanted ride of his. I am detaching. I can more clearly see what is happening, and best of all, I am freeing myself of the guilt and sense of responsibility I have felt for his actions. I still struggle to find peace on a daily basis. I fantasize about going away - far away to someplace tropical where I could get away physically and emotionally in a new setting; someplace where the biggest worry would be watching out for falling coconuts. Stressy [/QUOTE]
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