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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 761867" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p><em>Copa, Your sincere honest post speaks volumes of your good heart. I know we all say white lies from time to time. I truly try to tell the truth everyday, each time because I am so deep down sick of my daughters lying. Sometimes if I am around someone that I am not comfortable with weird thing come out of my mouth. </em></p><p><em>I do know my daughter loves me. </em></p><p><em>Just yesterday my daughter was telling me about an arrest that she said happened a couple of houses down from where she lives. She told me in great detail what happened. Come to find out it happened several blocks away, I read about it on the neighborhood website. My daughter knew I would probably read about it and called me to say they got the street name all wrong. That is typical of the constant, never ending, crazy types of lies she makes up.</em></p><p><em>I do wonder if her brain just shuts off and her mouth has it's own system and just starts talking on it's own. </em></p><p><em>My daughter is intelligent, understands law inside out, understands politics inside out, does day trading and is good with that and so far paying her bills. Her art business in picking up and I am proud of her talent. I know I am not the only one she lies to, she lies to everyone. I am always worried that she is going to lie to the wrong person and get into major trouble. I have seen it happen and it is ugly. I also realize that I can't do anything about it but it still weighs heavy on me because when she hurts, I hurt.</em></p><p><em>It is helpful for me to write what is going on. Sometimes I am confused and I desperately want to do the right most healthy helpful thing. Copa, thank you for your input through all these years you have so much value and love in your broken heart.</em></p><p><em>I work at changing.</em></p><p> <em>My daughters lies feel like abuse to me. I know she knows she is doing it most of the time and I believe during mania she gets dupers delight thinking she pulled another one on me. Does it help her if I just ignore the lies? Calling her on it just makes her anxiety go off the charts. I just listen to her tone. All the thousands of dollars I spend on therapy for her did not do anything. When and how does a person that is a pathological liar ever stop? I read with medication, but she will not medicate. CBT therapy helped a little while and then she is back to lying. Bottom line, if she and only she decides to do something about it then maybe her life will get better.</em></p><p><em>Thank you for your support, and love and grateful to have you as my buddy.</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 761867, member: 22416"] [I]Copa, Your sincere honest post speaks volumes of your good heart. I know we all say white lies from time to time. I truly try to tell the truth everyday, each time because I am so deep down sick of my daughters lying. Sometimes if I am around someone that I am not comfortable with weird thing come out of my mouth. I do know my daughter loves me. Just yesterday my daughter was telling me about an arrest that she said happened a couple of houses down from where she lives. She told me in great detail what happened. Come to find out it happened several blocks away, I read about it on the neighborhood website. My daughter knew I would probably read about it and called me to say they got the street name all wrong. That is typical of the constant, never ending, crazy types of lies she makes up. I do wonder if her brain just shuts off and her mouth has it's own system and just starts talking on it's own. My daughter is intelligent, understands law inside out, understands politics inside out, does day trading and is good with that and so far paying her bills. Her art business in picking up and I am proud of her talent. I know I am not the only one she lies to, she lies to everyone. I am always worried that she is going to lie to the wrong person and get into major trouble. I have seen it happen and it is ugly. I also realize that I can't do anything about it but it still weighs heavy on me because when she hurts, I hurt. It is helpful for me to write what is going on. Sometimes I am confused and I desperately want to do the right most healthy helpful thing. Copa, thank you for your input through all these years you have so much value and love in your broken heart. I work at changing. My daughters lies feel like abuse to me. I know she knows she is doing it most of the time and I believe during mania she gets dupers delight thinking she pulled another one on me. Does it help her if I just ignore the lies? Calling her on it just makes her anxiety go off the charts. I just listen to her tone. All the thousands of dollars I spend on therapy for her did not do anything. When and how does a person that is a pathological liar ever stop? I read with medication, but she will not medicate. CBT therapy helped a little while and then she is back to lying. Bottom line, if she and only she decides to do something about it then maybe her life will get better. Thank you for your support, and love and grateful to have you as my buddy.[/I] [/QUOTE]
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