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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 19566" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>MWM ~ good for you to come here and vent! I bet you feel better just being able to type it all out?</p><p></p><p>Again ~ You are not alone</p><p></p><p>I will condense my story, but I want to share so that you will know you are not alone</p><p></p><p>My family disowned me when I wouldn't put my bi-racial son up for adoption. I was forbid to contact any extended as well.</p><p>Both of my father's parents died without ever knowing that I had two children.</p><p></p><p>My sister was basically raised as an only child, so we didn't have any dynamics of being in the same home.</p><p>As time went on and the relationship with my parents started to heal, my sis and I become close.</p><p></p><p>She would constantly bring up how wrong I was treated, I had dealt with it and was ready to move on and it angered her that I was becoming close to "her" mother that she couldn't get along with.</p><p>Long story short ~ She has repeatedly been so full of venom about the entire relationship that I know have with my parents and the relationship that they have with my children that she has cussed and threatened each of us and moved out of state.</p><p>There were so many hateful incidents that I couldn't even begin to tell them that happened before she moved.</p><p></p><p>She would try to manipulate my daughter against me, against my mom and I had to stop letting my daughter be around her.</p><p>I cut off all comunication with her. after a yr she started e-mailing me, but like your sis, she would not agree to sit down and talk about it. I told her I could not go forward with any resolve until the things that she had done with my daughter were addressed with me and my daughter present.</p><p>I left the door open for her when she is ready to sit and talk.</p><p></p><p>I have learned that sometimes even if it is family, it can be poison to you and you have to let go</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 19566, member: 2389"] MWM ~ good for you to come here and vent! I bet you feel better just being able to type it all out? Again ~ You are not alone I will condense my story, but I want to share so that you will know you are not alone My family disowned me when I wouldn't put my bi-racial son up for adoption. I was forbid to contact any extended as well. Both of my father's parents died without ever knowing that I had two children. My sister was basically raised as an only child, so we didn't have any dynamics of being in the same home. As time went on and the relationship with my parents started to heal, my sis and I become close. She would constantly bring up how wrong I was treated, I had dealt with it and was ready to move on and it angered her that I was becoming close to "her" mother that she couldn't get along with. Long story short ~ She has repeatedly been so full of venom about the entire relationship that I know have with my parents and the relationship that they have with my children that she has cussed and threatened each of us and moved out of state. There were so many hateful incidents that I couldn't even begin to tell them that happened before she moved. She would try to manipulate my daughter against me, against my mom and I had to stop letting my daughter be around her. I cut off all comunication with her. after a yr she started e-mailing me, but like your sis, she would not agree to sit down and talk about it. I told her I could not go forward with any resolve until the things that she had done with my daughter were addressed with me and my daughter present. I left the door open for her when she is ready to sit and talk. I have learned that sometimes even if it is family, it can be poison to you and you have to let go [/QUOTE]
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