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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 26693" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Janet, there has to be some way that you can get help. Why can't you get an equity loan? That is one that uses your property as collateral. All you need to do is show them that you are insured (in the even of loss or damage to the mobile home) and you're fine. It's independent of age, of income or anything like that. If you die before paying it back, the loan and any interest is taken out of sale of the mobile home. It saves people having to ask family.</p><p></p><p>Alternatively - are there any service organisations who would help? girlfriend sounds VERY insecure, very materialistic. With NO idea of family and how it works. Is she an only child? Did she have a deprives or damaged childhood? Why does she have no idea?</p><p></p><p>The only child thing - we've seen it in our family. Those who married an only child have more problems in continuing to spend time with their siblings. It can get quite nasty. In cases where the only child DOES learn to fit in, it takes a great deal of adjustment. easy child's BF1 - we love him to bits, but he has not grown up with family. He's spent enough time with us to understand a lot, but we often see that he needs his own space and we leave him alone at those times. He's always polite, but there are times when we're visiting that we can see the signs, and we politely say good night, and go back to where we're staying. Now, living with easy child, is the first time he's had a home that is HIS space and it's very precious to him. easy child is an extension of that space, so he doesn't need to be apart from her as well, just her family (sometimes). A lot of only children also get possessive of their partners - not BF1, thank goodness. But this could also be an issue for Jamie's girlfriend. Hence the ultimatum (WHY do some people think ultimatums are the adult way to handle things? It's so childish, so inappropriate, so unproductive...)</p><p></p><p>Good luck with this one, Janet. I hope you can get some sort of covering loan, soon.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 26693, member: 1991"] Janet, there has to be some way that you can get help. Why can't you get an equity loan? That is one that uses your property as collateral. All you need to do is show them that you are insured (in the even of loss or damage to the mobile home) and you're fine. It's independent of age, of income or anything like that. If you die before paying it back, the loan and any interest is taken out of sale of the mobile home. It saves people having to ask family. Alternatively - are there any service organisations who would help? girlfriend sounds VERY insecure, very materialistic. With NO idea of family and how it works. Is she an only child? Did she have a deprives or damaged childhood? Why does she have no idea? The only child thing - we've seen it in our family. Those who married an only child have more problems in continuing to spend time with their siblings. It can get quite nasty. In cases where the only child DOES learn to fit in, it takes a great deal of adjustment. easy child's BF1 - we love him to bits, but he has not grown up with family. He's spent enough time with us to understand a lot, but we often see that he needs his own space and we leave him alone at those times. He's always polite, but there are times when we're visiting that we can see the signs, and we politely say good night, and go back to where we're staying. Now, living with easy child, is the first time he's had a home that is HIS space and it's very precious to him. easy child is an extension of that space, so he doesn't need to be apart from her as well, just her family (sometimes). A lot of only children also get possessive of their partners - not BF1, thank goodness. But this could also be an issue for Jamie's girlfriend. Hence the ultimatum (WHY do some people think ultimatums are the adult way to handle things? It's so childish, so inappropriate, so unproductive...) Good luck with this one, Janet. I hope you can get some sort of covering loan, soon. Marg [/QUOTE]
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