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<blockquote data-quote="envisablepuppet" data-source="post: 7362" data-attributes="member: 585"><p>Thanks everyone for the responses they are appreciated.</p><p></p><p>I talked to my difficult child and explained to her what I feel I should do about the situation. She is ok with what I suggested and my reasons for wanting to take some kind of action. It's not just my difficult child she does this to. It's any child or young adult that she personally finds fault with. The things she says is so hurtful and most of the time completely untrue. That is what bothers me.</p><p></p><p>I am thinking about writing her a letter. When she was schooling my daughter she was constantly asking her "What would Jesus do?" She even gave difficult child a bracelet to remind her. She told me herself that she has a very serious problem with her gossiping and she really needs to get it under control. That was several years ago and it's apparent that she has worked really hard to get herself under control. Not!!!</p><p></p><p>As time passes my hostility lessens. I do feel that writing her a letter and asking HER "what would Jesus do" would not be out of line. I will be asking and telling her more than that. I will ask her what she is going to do when she is standing in front of GOD and he asks her who she got permission from to judge people so harshly because I'm sure he will tell her he doesnt remember giving her the go ahead. </p><p></p><p>No I won't say it just like that but I'm sure you get the idea.</p><p></p><p>She is always praising God, she listens to nothing but Christian music and always talks about how religious she is. I have no problem with that. As a rule I admire it. I'm pretty spiritual myself just not the same as she is. But then I don't want to be that kind of Christian either. I try to be honest at least. The only reason I am even talking about her here is because it is anonymous and won't hurt her. </p><p></p><p>I didn't mean for this to turn into a post on religion and will understand if it gets removed. I'm not sure of the rules on this kind of topic. It just kinda comes with the person I'm dealing with. I used to really like this woman, she was one of my best friends and it really saddens me to know that this is causing her and others such shame and grief. She doesnt keep many friends because of this one problem. It's just sad.</p><p></p><p>Still not sure what I'll do or if I'll do anything at all. But anyway...</p><p></p><p>Happy Holidays Everyone /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/11-24c.gif</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="envisablepuppet, post: 7362, member: 585"] Thanks everyone for the responses they are appreciated. I talked to my difficult child and explained to her what I feel I should do about the situation. She is ok with what I suggested and my reasons for wanting to take some kind of action. It's not just my difficult child she does this to. It's any child or young adult that she personally finds fault with. The things she says is so hurtful and most of the time completely untrue. That is what bothers me. I am thinking about writing her a letter. When she was schooling my daughter she was constantly asking her "What would Jesus do?" She even gave difficult child a bracelet to remind her. She told me herself that she has a very serious problem with her gossiping and she really needs to get it under control. That was several years ago and it's apparent that she has worked really hard to get herself under control. Not!!! As time passes my hostility lessens. I do feel that writing her a letter and asking HER "what would Jesus do" would not be out of line. I will be asking and telling her more than that. I will ask her what she is going to do when she is standing in front of GOD and he asks her who she got permission from to judge people so harshly because I'm sure he will tell her he doesnt remember giving her the go ahead. No I won't say it just like that but I'm sure you get the idea. She is always praising God, she listens to nothing but Christian music and always talks about how religious she is. I have no problem with that. As a rule I admire it. I'm pretty spiritual myself just not the same as she is. But then I don't want to be that kind of Christian either. I try to be honest at least. The only reason I am even talking about her here is because it is anonymous and won't hurt her. I didn't mean for this to turn into a post on religion and will understand if it gets removed. I'm not sure of the rules on this kind of topic. It just kinda comes with the person I'm dealing with. I used to really like this woman, she was one of my best friends and it really saddens me to know that this is causing her and others such shame and grief. She doesnt keep many friends because of this one problem. It's just sad. Still not sure what I'll do or if I'll do anything at all. But anyway... Happy Holidays Everyone [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/11-24c.gif[/img] [/QUOTE]
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