Very good video on setting boundaries for our adult children

[BusynMember]

It is helping me. I am struggling a bit here so I needed to look for an online research to bring me back to sanity. I hope it helps even one of us, even an active member or a lurker!!! Hope you feel better after your hear it! We are all in this together.

 

[2much2recover]

Thanks so much for posting this!

 

[FlowerGarden]

Thanks for sharing this post!

 

[worriedMom]

Thank you

 

[Nancy]

Thanks MWM, it's always good for me to get a refresher course. While the situation is so much better now with my difficult child I need to continue reminding myself of these lessons. This was an exellent piece.

S - stop the flow of money
A - assemble a support group
N - nip excuses in the bud (both ours and theirs)
I - implement rules and boudaries (mean what you say)
T - trust your instincts
Y - yield everything to whatever higher power you believe in (you can also take this to yield everything to difficult child to fix their own life, letting go)