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very hurt i have to do this alone
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 713221" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>If you need to talk about it or learn to cope with your sons sad situation, I highly recommend getting a therapist for yourself. Just for you. To be good to yourself.</p><p></p><p>This way you will be heard and perhaps gain an understanding of why others act how they act. A good chunk of us are in therapy or were. At least you can then get it off your chest. Living with anger and bitterness toward all your loved ones hurts your mental and physical health and does nothing for your son. Only your son can turn it around for him and only you can turn it around for you, but you really dont have to do it alone.</p><p></p><p>You have lots of trouble detaching from your sons plight..maybe everyone else in your family, including Dad, already has detached.Doesnt mean Dad is cold...it is protecting himself. He decided maybe that son has to figure it out, which is healthy. Son does.</p><p></p><p> It doesnt serve your kind heart to be upset about your son or anyone else. Not saying you will ever not love your son, but you can learn to live your life better, in spite if his poor choices. Please get into therapy for you and be good to yourself.</p><p></p><p>Light and love.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 713221, member: 1550"] If you need to talk about it or learn to cope with your sons sad situation, I highly recommend getting a therapist for yourself. Just for you. To be good to yourself. This way you will be heard and perhaps gain an understanding of why others act how they act. A good chunk of us are in therapy or were. At least you can then get it off your chest. Living with anger and bitterness toward all your loved ones hurts your mental and physical health and does nothing for your son. Only your son can turn it around for him and only you can turn it around for you, but you really dont have to do it alone. You have lots of trouble detaching from your sons plight..maybe everyone else in your family, including Dad, already has detached.Doesnt mean Dad is cold...it is protecting himself. He decided maybe that son has to figure it out, which is healthy. Son does. It doesnt serve your kind heart to be upset about your son or anyone else. Not saying you will ever not love your son, but you can learn to live your life better, in spite if his poor choices. Please get into therapy for you and be good to yourself. Light and love. [/QUOTE]
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