I was going to make the decision for my son to go to the shelter after he was discharged and in a few days he was going to go be with his dad. I caved when he said he needed to get his stuff from he apt. he was going to be evicted from. So, anyway he is staying with me. Trying not to sound like a victim, but I feel like one. I am mad at myself for caving & I am trying to not get involved with the arrangements he needs to make with his dad, etc. I did tell him that when we stepped out of the hospital that if he ever lied, stole, cheated, or even bent the truth, our relationship was over. So, looking at it, I just feel like a wimp of a mother. I love my son, but I am ready for him to move on and get out of my hair. We are getting along well and I know my son needs support, I am just basically fed up with the whole ordeal.