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<blockquote data-quote="HeadlightsMom" data-source="post: 636505" data-attributes="member: 18284"><p>SoC --- I read and re-read your post. Sadness filled my heart for you. And I realized something quite wonderful about having this group ---wherein we grow to know each other, but still retain a degree of anonymity. While some of you may know each other better, I'm still quite new to this group.</p><p></p><p>SoC ---- When I, as an outsider, read your story (you're a good writer, too, so I feel you deeply embedded in your words), I feel something which should bring great validation to you.</p><p></p><p>YOU DO NOT DESERVE ANY OF THAT. HE CHOSE HIS PATH....AND HE CONTINUES TO CHOOSE IT.</p><p></p><p>Nope, I don't know every detail of your life (or your difficult child's life). Nope, I don't have pictures of your faces, your expressions, your voice sound, your house, your incidents over the years, etc.</p><p></p><p>But I hear the courage and candor in your heartfelt posts. They say integrity to me.</p><p></p><p>Cedar -- I only know you by your words. But your words speak integrity, indeed. Stay true to yourself. You're really quite a lovely person. You offer much love, wisdom and support to so many in this group. I always look forward to seeing your words of wisdom on this site.</p><p></p><p>Hence, I have no doubt that you're just as lovely a person outside of this forum as inside of it. You are a valuable voice.</p><p></p><p>PS -- Plus, I do love your" Scent of Cedar" username!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="HeadlightsMom, post: 636505, member: 18284"] SoC --- I read and re-read your post. Sadness filled my heart for you. And I realized something quite wonderful about having this group ---wherein we grow to know each other, but still retain a degree of anonymity. While some of you may know each other better, I'm still quite new to this group. SoC ---- When I, as an outsider, read your story (you're a good writer, too, so I feel you deeply embedded in your words), I feel something which should bring great validation to you. YOU DO NOT DESERVE ANY OF THAT. HE CHOSE HIS PATH....AND HE CONTINUES TO CHOOSE IT. Nope, I don't know every detail of your life (or your difficult child's life). Nope, I don't have pictures of your faces, your expressions, your voice sound, your house, your incidents over the years, etc. But I hear the courage and candor in your heartfelt posts. They say integrity to me. Cedar -- I only know you by your words. But your words speak integrity, indeed. Stay true to yourself. You're really quite a lovely person. You offer much love, wisdom and support to so many in this group. I always look forward to seeing your words of wisdom on this site. Hence, I have no doubt that you're just as lovely a person outside of this forum as inside of it. You are a valuable voice. PS -- Plus, I do love your" Scent of Cedar" username! [/QUOTE]
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