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<blockquote data-quote="Echolette" data-source="post: 636616" data-attributes="member: 17269"><p>Wow, that sounds like a lot of excuses! a lot of but but but. Good grief.</p><p></p><p>Tell him you are only charging low interest on the $4500 and the car, so he can feel good about paying that back.</p><p></p><p>Oh wait, he could have used that to pay off the loan, or to go to school, right? But he didn't. But but but.</p><p></p><p>People who want to go to school find a way. My SO's daughter does a clerical work at a local univeristy BECAUSE IT COMES WITH TUITION BENEFITS. She only has a high school diploma, but she figured that part out!</p><p></p><p>He could have gone to school, Cedar. The military pays for school too. Lots of ways I don't even know about.</p><p></p><p>Let it go.</p><p></p><p>and as far as needing college...my ex's new girlfriend didn't go to college but she runs 3 highly successful restaurants, has launched countless chefs, and changed the face of restaurants in our city. She was a waitress before she did that.</p><p></p><p>my SO didn't go to college but ran a construction company (his own) with 30 employees and heavy equipment for years. Yes he did a lot of menial work first. But he didn't go to college.</p><p></p><p>Tell difficult child to shut up.</p><p></p><p>And as far as calling you dumb ass? That is just a sign of what a severe dysfunctional jerk he is. There is no land in which, when you are trying to persuade some one to do something for you, you insult them, mom or no. No wonder he can't get along in the world. He's jerk.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry your son is a jerk. Maybe he'll still get better. My mom got much better in her 60's and 70's..you are getting better. I'm better, in my 50's. Maybe he'll get better too. Till then....tell him to take a frieking walk , and make sure you eliminate him from your will.</p><p></p><p>Echo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Echolette, post: 636616, member: 17269"] Wow, that sounds like a lot of excuses! a lot of but but but. Good grief. Tell him you are only charging low interest on the $4500 and the car, so he can feel good about paying that back. Oh wait, he could have used that to pay off the loan, or to go to school, right? But he didn't. But but but. People who want to go to school find a way. My SO's daughter does a clerical work at a local univeristy BECAUSE IT COMES WITH TUITION BENEFITS. She only has a high school diploma, but she figured that part out! He could have gone to school, Cedar. The military pays for school too. Lots of ways I don't even know about. Let it go. and as far as needing college...my ex's new girlfriend didn't go to college but she runs 3 highly successful restaurants, has launched countless chefs, and changed the face of restaurants in our city. She was a waitress before she did that. my SO didn't go to college but ran a construction company (his own) with 30 employees and heavy equipment for years. Yes he did a lot of menial work first. But he didn't go to college. Tell difficult child to shut up. And as far as calling you dumb ass? That is just a sign of what a severe dysfunctional jerk he is. There is no land in which, when you are trying to persuade some one to do something for you, you insult them, mom or no. No wonder he can't get along in the world. He's jerk. I am sorry your son is a jerk. Maybe he'll still get better. My mom got much better in her 60's and 70's..you are getting better. I'm better, in my 50's. Maybe he'll get better too. Till then....tell him to take a frieking walk , and make sure you eliminate him from your will. Echo [/QUOTE]
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