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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 723627" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>i think i know what you feel. some of it.</p><p></p><p>honestly. i would not worry much about the criminal record. down the road, g-d willing, he can get this expunged.</p><p></p><p>look. none of what you're doing has anything easy about it. just courage. and love.</p><p></p><p>son is over his head. he is drug addled still. whether or not there are still drugs in his system. this is the state of mind that is governing his behavior. you know that.</p><p></p><p>he is over his head.</p><p></p><p>i believe he needs support. but such has to be conditional. for example. that he commit himself to a facility.</p><p></p><p>but then. until he is to some extent rational and in control, nothing good will come of involving yourself.</p><p></p><p>this is a process that has to move further along. i do not know how long detox will take. </p><p></p><p>i know others will disagree but there are physicians/others who are addiction specialists. maybe you could consult them for counsel or intervention with your son. he is very young.</p><p></p><p>while people here are knowledgeable and experienced, our voices are biased and based upon personal experience. we do not really know you or your son. </p><p></p><p>nobody can or should tell you the right thing to do.</p><p></p><p>you said what is the heart of the matter. nobody knows.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 723627, member: 18958"] i think i know what you feel. some of it. honestly. i would not worry much about the criminal record. down the road, g-d willing, he can get this expunged. look. none of what you're doing has anything easy about it. just courage. and love. son is over his head. he is drug addled still. whether or not there are still drugs in his system. this is the state of mind that is governing his behavior. you know that. he is over his head. i believe he needs support. but such has to be conditional. for example. that he commit himself to a facility. but then. until he is to some extent rational and in control, nothing good will come of involving yourself. this is a process that has to move further along. i do not know how long detox will take. i know others will disagree but there are physicians/others who are addiction specialists. maybe you could consult them for counsel or intervention with your son. he is very young. while people here are knowledgeable and experienced, our voices are biased and based upon personal experience. we do not really know you or your son. nobody can or should tell you the right thing to do. you said what is the heart of the matter. nobody knows. [/QUOTE]
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