I guess I am just waiting for the other shoe to drop. By waiting I mean that seems to be what I am doing lately. I wait for the phone call to come and identify his body - I wait for the phone call from jail - I wait for the phone call to ask for money - I just dont even know why - he is living with another guy and his girlfriend - my son has an EBT card and is helping them with groceries - I dont know if any of them have ajob - the guy did pressure wash and my son was supposed to be helping him - for some reason I believe they are selling drugs - my son is on probation andhasnt paid his probation anything - he called me today to get the phone number after he asked for money - he wanted to go to the dentist for his teeth - he went to the er the other day but did not take the antibiotic they gave him - it all seems ridiculous to me - anyway - i was just filling everyone in - my husband is on part time status now at his engineering company - the clients are not letting the work go - great - so the money is tight - we are going to a counselor next week to talk about doing an intervention - my hubby doesnt think it is worth it - what do yall think? We have done just about everything else but that. However - it may seem like I say I just sit and wait all day but I dont - my easy child son and I went swimming today at the gym - hung out - I talked to my daughter = cleaned up the house, etc. I am not just obsessing about it but I just dread what may happen.