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<blockquote data-quote="kris" data-source="post: 33133" data-attributes="member: 74"><p><span style='font-size: 14pt'> <span style='font-family: Georgia'> <span style="color: #3333FF"> <em>the simple fact is that once they break the trust it's just not that easy to totally repair the damage done. it's got a bit of the PTSD reactions to it. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>i don't believe that when they have spent years lying, stealing, etc., that one good week can repair that. it takes time. he has a lot to prove....a h*ll of a lot! now he'll expect instant forgiveness & will be irrate when you doubt him because after all *he's stopped lying to you, blah, blah, blah. think of it this way. if your wife cheated on you ~~~ had been cheating for years ~~~ wouldn't you wonder where she was going pretty much any time she walked out the door or came home late? of course you would. it's human nature. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>it will be years before you stop questioning...at least in your mind...what he's up to & if he's telling the truth about what he's doing. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>i'm glad you guys are having a better week. baby steps.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>kris </em> </span> </span> </span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kris, post: 33133, member: 74"] <span style='font-size: 14pt'> <span style='font-family: Georgia'> <span style="color: #3333FF"> [i]the simple fact is that once they break the trust it's just not that easy to totally repair the damage done. it's got a bit of the PTSD reactions to it. i don't believe that when they have spent years lying, stealing, etc., that one good week can repair that. it takes time. he has a lot to prove....a h*ll of a lot! now he'll expect instant forgiveness & will be irrate when you doubt him because after all *he's stopped lying to you, blah, blah, blah. think of it this way. if your wife cheated on you ~~~ had been cheating for years ~~~ wouldn't you wonder where she was going pretty much any time she walked out the door or came home late? of course you would. it's human nature. it will be years before you stop questioning...at least in your mind...what he's up to & if he's telling the truth about what he's doing. i'm glad you guys are having a better week. baby steps. kris [/i] </span> </span> </span> [/QUOTE]
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