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<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 650233" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>These are all brought to us by the political and wealthy sociopaths. I don't see what they do to us, the citizens and this country as any different than what my daughter does to others - they just are able to do it on a grander scale because we have given them the power to destroy with their corruption. A good show to watch and see governmental sociopath archetypes in action is Netflix "House of Cards".</p><p></p><p>There are very scary people that are really out to get us LOL. And they have names and (mostly) diagnoses. We fail ourselves when we refuse to see them for what they are and keep ourselves and our hearts out of anybody's life who we can clearly see is disordered. For disordered does has disordered is. Playing it safe and going along is not a possibility. When you are involved with these types, there is always, <strong><em>ALWAYS</em></strong>, a game being run under every conversation, every interaction. If you are not disordered yourself, again, I have said this in the past, you are not capable of speaking the same language of the disordered person. That puts you always at risk because you have no idea what lengths the disordered person is willing to go to win the "game". </p><p></p><p></p><p>After you come to accept that it is not your fault that your child is who they are, you do get there as all suffering can only last a certain length of time. The further out you bring yourself from identifying with the disordered person, the less shame there is to feel. As far as friends and family that you feel may bring you to feeling ashamed - stop sharing with them things that make you feel this way. Others may not get it, ever. So then it becomes none of their business unless you allow it by bringing it up. When asked about Difficult Child: FINE and change the subject. You, are never responsible to share what is painful for you with others. What they don't know, they can't judge you on, therefore you have nothing to be ashamed of. Slowly, the walls of shame start to dissolve when we begin to let ourselves off the hook for DNA connection we have no control over.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 650233, member: 18366"] These are all brought to us by the political and wealthy sociopaths. I don't see what they do to us, the citizens and this country as any different than what my daughter does to others - they just are able to do it on a grander scale because we have given them the power to destroy with their corruption. A good show to watch and see governmental sociopath archetypes in action is Netflix "House of Cards". There are very scary people that are really out to get us LOL. And they have names and (mostly) diagnoses. We fail ourselves when we refuse to see them for what they are and keep ourselves and our hearts out of anybody's life who we can clearly see is disordered. For disordered does has disordered is. Playing it safe and going along is not a possibility. When you are involved with these types, there is always, [B][I]ALWAYS[/I][/B], a game being run under every conversation, every interaction. If you are not disordered yourself, again, I have said this in the past, you are not capable of speaking the same language of the disordered person. That puts you always at risk because you have no idea what lengths the disordered person is willing to go to win the "game". After you come to accept that it is not your fault that your child is who they are, you do get there as all suffering can only last a certain length of time. The further out you bring yourself from identifying with the disordered person, the less shame there is to feel. As far as friends and family that you feel may bring you to feeling ashamed - stop sharing with them things that make you feel this way. Others may not get it, ever. So then it becomes none of their business unless you allow it by bringing it up. When asked about Difficult Child: FINE and change the subject. You, are never responsible to share what is painful for you with others. What they don't know, they can't judge you on, therefore you have nothing to be ashamed of. Slowly, the walls of shame start to dissolve when we begin to let ourselves off the hook for DNA connection we have no control over. [/QUOTE]
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