Hello all, here is the latest update from me and mine. We hit a major turning point this weekend. Our son is angry, violent, belligerent, nast, vindictive and mean all of the time now. We can't get his medications regulated on the once a month psychiatrist visits the case managers are allowing. They refuse to allow us to get him the additional care he needs (the psychologist and psychiatrist have both reccommended some sort of inpatient care) He is a danger to himself, us, his sister, and everyone/thing in our home. I know that you all understand, and this forum has been a big part of what has kept me going this long. husband and I decided that we don't have the help he needs in our home,and with them not allowing us to get additional help, they are trying to endanger us all. We told the case managers to make arrangements to remove the kids after the holidays. The saddest part in all this is that they refuse to see the danger he poses to his sister, and they will remove her too! I feel like I have failed them, because I know how this will play out...and these to kids are going to get lost in the system because the case managers are going to do the same thing to the next home...with hold vital info, and set them up for another failure and then the terror will begin all over again! I am so fuming angry at them for putting us in this position, and not giving us all the tools we needed to make this work. We are so soured to the system right now that we don't even know if we have it in us to try again! You all have been a wonderful help. I applaud each and every one of you!