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<blockquote data-quote="SunnyFlorida" data-source="post: 23948" data-attributes="member: 696"><p>I think I'd like to be your neighbor too. There is absolutley nothing wrong with being prepared. There's alot of us control issue people and wannahaveacluers.</p><p></p><p>Your difficult child seems to say things then recant. Sounds like she wants to have her cake and eat it too. Sounds great, but not realistic. Actually though it can be if...one is working and supporting themselves. That's the key, if she's able to make it on her own and survive then you've done your best. If she wants to have a relationship with you afterwards...that's the icing.</p><p></p><p>If she's pregnant, the home will find resources for her or ship her somewhere else. She may land in a shelter somewhere until a bed opens up somewhere. The trick is for you not to cave and let her back. She'll figure it out sooner or later that she has to toe the line in order to make it. </p><p></p><p>It's just that some of our difficult child's are pokey and it takes them years to get where they need to be.</p><p></p><p>Aren't you glad you found such a great group?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SunnyFlorida, post: 23948, member: 696"] I think I'd like to be your neighbor too. There is absolutley nothing wrong with being prepared. There's alot of us control issue people and wannahaveacluers. Your difficult child seems to say things then recant. Sounds like she wants to have her cake and eat it too. Sounds great, but not realistic. Actually though it can be if...one is working and supporting themselves. That's the key, if she's able to make it on her own and survive then you've done your best. If she wants to have a relationship with you afterwards...that's the icing. If she's pregnant, the home will find resources for her or ship her somewhere else. She may land in a shelter somewhere until a bed opens up somewhere. The trick is for you not to cave and let her back. She'll figure it out sooner or later that she has to toe the line in order to make it. It's just that some of our difficult child's are pokey and it takes them years to get where they need to be. Aren't you glad you found such a great group? [/QUOTE]
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