I just learned about a program in my state that offers incontinence supplies to people who need them and they are paid for by NC Medicaid. Now I am sure NC is not the only state that is on the cutting edge of this. They send the pads that you can put underneath a person and also the various types of supplies depending on what you want. I like the Depends that are like pullups because I only have to use them when I am really sick and I could so badly. But they sent me like 4 huge containers with probably enough to last me all year. I sure hope I have to call for a refill...lol. If anyone else here has this issue with their elderly parent and they are on medicaid...or...gosh I know it was a kid we were talking about,, I just cant remember the name...look into your state for this program.