Our daughter is 15. She has been a competitve swimmer and water polo player on her high school team as a freshman. She has always been a gifted student, but very stubborn. In the last year her grades have been shoddy. she really has not had the opportunity to get mixed up in drugs and alcohol (I know that she has drank on a few occasions though), but we feel her recent behavior makes it the next step. She does not want to do anything. She is unreasonable and flies off the handle. She is very disrespectful and angry/bitter. She has also exhibited signs of depression.We have basically taken away all of her privileges (phone, computer, tv). Her behavior hass only gotten worse. About 10 days ago, we took her to an adolescent PHD. We had to fight her kicking and screaming to get her in the car. Now she refuses to go back or even talk to him on the phone. As of this point, we do not think that she will physically harm herself, but she has taken the position that she does not care about anything. We have tried to talk to her about earning back her privileges, but she does not care. What do we do get her to see someone to help her? We are at wits end!