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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 75714" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>Kfld, I feel for you.</p><p>When an H discovers that he's about to become an Ex-H, things can get even uglier. It's probably a blessing that you have some more time at work, because it gives you a chance to get a grip on yourself, and make some plans.</p><p></p><p>I would suggest that, rather than calling your H the moment you get off work, that you take the time to make whatever plans you need to.</p><p></p><p>Seek legal advice, financial advice, real estate advice, whatever issues you are going to have to deal with when you take the steps to end the marriage formally. Only when you have a plan and can see things clearly, do you want to confront your H.</p><p></p><p>It's WAY too easy to make a bad decision when your emotions are high. And if the girl is as unstable as she sounds, you might need to put some security measures in place to protect yourself and your children. Call display, call block, one of those little wide-angle viewers in your front door...I'm not sure what you need, but you want to make sure that you are safe and have a plan before you do anything else.</p><p></p><p>My thoughts and prayers are with you. I have been there done that, and it can be an awful mess.</p><p></p><p>Best wishes, and be strong.</p><p>Trinity</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 75714, member: 3907"] Kfld, I feel for you. When an H discovers that he's about to become an Ex-H, things can get even uglier. It's probably a blessing that you have some more time at work, because it gives you a chance to get a grip on yourself, and make some plans. I would suggest that, rather than calling your H the moment you get off work, that you take the time to make whatever plans you need to. Seek legal advice, financial advice, real estate advice, whatever issues you are going to have to deal with when you take the steps to end the marriage formally. Only when you have a plan and can see things clearly, do you want to confront your H. It's WAY too easy to make a bad decision when your emotions are high. And if the girl is as unstable as she sounds, you might need to put some security measures in place to protect yourself and your children. Call display, call block, one of those little wide-angle viewers in your front door...I'm not sure what you need, but you want to make sure that you are safe and have a plan before you do anything else. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I have been there done that, and it can be an awful mess. Best wishes, and be strong. Trinity [/QUOTE]
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