We are frustrated. Today I really am. difficult child argues and love/hates to. Now he is disagreeing and arguing with what he has earned and spent with his points(token economy). We have tried behavior plans on and off for years. After the first couple years on one token economy when he was 5, a doctor finally said "if it is not working stop". We did and were relieved. We have tried various plans, schedules, recommended techniques for years for long periods of time. We need something else. I just feel things are just out of reach. I almost think I almost have him figured out, but I don't. I just wish I could parent naturally, that the wonderful parenting I learned from my parents and my husband's parents would work with difficult child. Any thoughts? Ideas? New theories you have found success with?