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We don't know what to do 22 year old son
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 663516" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Whatever diagnosis he may have is the least important thing.</p><p></p><p>He is running circles around you and your husband, degrading your family in your own home. That must stop NOW.</p><p></p><p>You already had all the information you needed, when he violated probation after the felony convictions. He told you by that, that he could care less.</p><p></p><p>What is that famous quote? When somebody tells you who they are, believe them. He has told you over and over again who he is. You are not listening.</p><p></p><p>You are letting your love for him, your fear and your hope, carry the day. He is mocking you. It is hurting rather than helping. He thinks he is the big man. All of your faith in him fuels his grandiose fantasies of power and invincibility.</p><p></p><p>All of this must stop:</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>He is dealing drugs, and you are paying his living expenses? Stop it.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>He does not listen to one word you say. Stop negotiating and setting rules. He is not listening. Not to one thing. Stop talking. It is meaningless. He is mocking you. He could care less what you say. He is in charge.</p><p></p><p>You must stop everything. He is controlling the game.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>This is such horrible disrespect. Reading this here, do you see what he is doing? He is doing whatever he wants, irregardless of who he hurts.</p><p></p><p>What to do?</p><p></p><p>I would not let him in the house, not for one minute.</p><p></p><p>I would withdraw any support to him. All of it. No money. No rent. No car payment. No car insurance. No health insurance. Nothing.</p><p></p><p>I would think long and hard about what I said to him. I would think long and hard whether to see him at all or under what conditions.</p><p></p><p>Others will reply and there will be a consensus and you can see what makes sense to you.</p><p></p><p>Quicksand, absolutely, I do understand what you are going through. You should not endure one more minute of it.</p><p></p><p>The inmates have taken over the asylum. As long as they are in charge there will be havoc and destruction.</p><p></p><p>Do not negotiate anymore with your son. He is not able or is unwilling to participate with integrity. You must take back control.'</p><p></p><p>I am sorry you are going through this but I am glad you are here. Keep posting. Keep us posted. We care.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 663516, member: 18958"] Whatever diagnosis he may have is the least important thing. He is running circles around you and your husband, degrading your family in your own home. That must stop NOW. You already had all the information you needed, when he violated probation after the felony convictions. He told you by that, that he could care less. What is that famous quote? When somebody tells you who they are, believe them. He has told you over and over again who he is. You are not listening. You are letting your love for him, your fear and your hope, carry the day. He is mocking you. It is hurting rather than helping. He thinks he is the big man. All of your faith in him fuels his grandiose fantasies of power and invincibility. All of this must stop: He is dealing drugs, and you are paying his living expenses? Stop it. He does not listen to one word you say. Stop negotiating and setting rules. He is not listening. Not to one thing. Stop talking. It is meaningless. He is mocking you. He could care less what you say. He is in charge. You must stop everything. He is controlling the game. This is such horrible disrespect. Reading this here, do you see what he is doing? He is doing whatever he wants, irregardless of who he hurts. What to do? I would not let him in the house, not for one minute. I would withdraw any support to him. All of it. No money. No rent. No car payment. No car insurance. No health insurance. Nothing. I would think long and hard about what I said to him. I would think long and hard whether to see him at all or under what conditions. Others will reply and there will be a consensus and you can see what makes sense to you. Quicksand, absolutely, I do understand what you are going through. You should not endure one more minute of it. The inmates have taken over the asylum. As long as they are in charge there will be havoc and destruction. Do not negotiate anymore with your son. He is not able or is unwilling to participate with integrity. You must take back control.' I am sorry you are going through this but I am glad you are here. Keep posting. Keep us posted. We care. [/QUOTE]
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