For those that may not know me, my difficult child has 3 kids from his ex fiance. He has lost his right to see them over a yr ago. He has not complied in doing what education he needs to do, as she did. But again was never forwarded the same rights and opportunites as ex over the issue that landed them in court. We had to go to court on several occassins to get the opportunity to see them. We had to go through supervised visits as we were the guilty ones. the ex fiance parents never had too. We finally one our visitation independence in excahnge for not placing her in jail when she was in contempt for not bringiong the kids to the supervised visits on two occasions. When we set up the visits it was pretty generic one weekend a month that worked out for her and us, and holiday time. She ended up taking a different job that placed us on the same weekend. So I was working only seeing them for a total of 10 hours out of 50 hours. Did not take them at holiday times because tro difficult with having my difficult child son and his family to come.