Man, I hope its the right thing to do, or that he'll tell us if we don't have a shot... Thanks for all your input last night. I really appreciate it. I talked to him more in-depth. He feels comfortable taking this case in front of a judge for a custody change. Feels a modification of visitation would be easily done based on the same info. Lawyers and legal battles are such a waste of money. I'm glad its Monday, I think I'll pretend its not happening.