It's the strangest thing....I've been having bad dreams about difficult child. In the dreams, difficult child is having a rage and she is yelling about her "weapons"....as in Where are my weapons? Give me my weapons! And I have awakened rattled, but kind of angry at myself for having stressful dreams - I mean, life is hard enough without my brain making stuff up to worry about! And then yesterday, during a cursory bedroom inspection (I was checking to see if difficult child had a certain DVD in her room) - I found matches and throwing knives. GRRR!!!!! And now I'm thinking that next time I have a "bad dream" about difficult child - I'm going to take it as a "sign" and investigate!