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<blockquote data-quote="Gramma" data-source="post: 76417" data-attributes="member: 4061"><p>When my daughter read it to me, I was in tears. All I could think of was my difficult child 3. I am in denial that I chose to raise them - I still maintain that I didn't choose, there wasn't any other choice as far as we could see. Adoption and foster care wasn't in husband's vocabulary. We were the last on a long list of family. No one wanted them. I didn't want to be in Holland with difficult child 3. With all my heart I want to be in Tahiti with husband. I am trying desperately to see the tulips in difficult child 3. I can't say it is helping me cope, but when I am most frustrated and ready to pack my bags, it is a reminder to look through different eyes at who she is and where she is going. This is her life and if I want to be a part of it, I guess I'd better catch the train before I miss it all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Gramma, post: 76417, member: 4061"] When my daughter read it to me, I was in tears. All I could think of was my difficult child 3. I am in denial that I chose to raise them - I still maintain that I didn't choose, there wasn't any other choice as far as we could see. Adoption and foster care wasn't in husband's vocabulary. We were the last on a long list of family. No one wanted them. I didn't want to be in Holland with difficult child 3. With all my heart I want to be in Tahiti with husband. I am trying desperately to see the tulips in difficult child 3. I can't say it is helping me cope, but when I am most frustrated and ready to pack my bags, it is a reminder to look through different eyes at who she is and where she is going. This is her life and if I want to be a part of it, I guess I'd better catch the train before I miss it all. [/QUOTE]
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