Hello all, I did not bail difficult child out and am getting letters that say all the things you want to here I change blah blah blah but when I went to visit him I was informed that he was never going to stop drinking and he is just going to do his time and then leave to go out of state, Great if he gets out and goes away but I know he won't. I am thinking of getting the eviction process started but feel like I am kicking a dog when down. For him to tell me he will not stop being the drunk scary man I believe him because with his anger problems he is honest to the point he does not care if he hurts people or not. I just can not believe he thinks this life style is okay. Ughh I am grateful I have time to think about what is best for me and husband.