C
candiecotton
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she was an absolute horror. she started from the minute she walked in the door. She wanted popcorn of course there was none left so she went on a tirade . hubby had S&C with him & she acted all worried about them & offered to go get them from school then said but wait im not allowed to be alone with them . i was sitting on my hands so i wouldn't smack her .
then she started on her brother . he was helping me clean her room because it was up to your neck ( took a garbage bag of **** out from under her bed alone) & she was saying things to get him mad but he was good he didnt retaliate & i told him shes just trying to P*** him off & not to feed into it .
so supper was ok she of course didnt like what i cooked & that was a screaming fest but she did eat it when she heard me tell C that this is supper not a restaurant. thenshe ate 2 bowls.
then getting ready for CLB ( it stands for church lads brigade its like cadets ) & that started her off they all had tickets to sell to help fund their activities last year i sold them all & even more but this year she said she wanted to sell them herself & took them into the group home then of course she said that they didnt pay her for them . i dont believe her so tomorrow when s the head socal worker is in there im going to ask if she had the money & of course hat will start stuff too ( im trying really hard not to swear lol ) .
shes decided that she will not spend any nights out here anymore till shes allowed to come home how nice that sets us back with her . they want an order for 4 more months & that will be the third order & that means if the children get taken again they will be gone till C is 16 & i knows they will do their best to take them . i want to change provinces because they cant follow you if you move ut of course hubby wont go . i want to start over somewhere where we are not being judged for everything we do . now when we go to school the worker who took them is there watching us when we go in in the morings . although they hve told us that he will not be our worker anymore . i think that he is not liking us because i am working 2 jobs so hubby was the one for most of the house work .
the councelors tell us to mak the children more responsible for their chores but we dont have the luxury of waiting to do things because if we waited for the boys to bring down their laundry & it piled up we would get in trouble & the threat of the children going will be there . no one understands that we cant wait on things & think were anal for making sure tings are done .
but im sorry to rant on but its good to get it out
then she started on her brother . he was helping me clean her room because it was up to your neck ( took a garbage bag of **** out from under her bed alone) & she was saying things to get him mad but he was good he didnt retaliate & i told him shes just trying to P*** him off & not to feed into it .
so supper was ok she of course didnt like what i cooked & that was a screaming fest but she did eat it when she heard me tell C that this is supper not a restaurant. thenshe ate 2 bowls.
then getting ready for CLB ( it stands for church lads brigade its like cadets ) & that started her off they all had tickets to sell to help fund their activities last year i sold them all & even more but this year she said she wanted to sell them herself & took them into the group home then of course she said that they didnt pay her for them . i dont believe her so tomorrow when s the head socal worker is in there im going to ask if she had the money & of course hat will start stuff too ( im trying really hard not to swear lol ) .
shes decided that she will not spend any nights out here anymore till shes allowed to come home how nice that sets us back with her . they want an order for 4 more months & that will be the third order & that means if the children get taken again they will be gone till C is 16 & i knows they will do their best to take them . i want to change provinces because they cant follow you if you move ut of course hubby wont go . i want to start over somewhere where we are not being judged for everything we do . now when we go to school the worker who took them is there watching us when we go in in the morings . although they hve told us that he will not be our worker anymore . i think that he is not liking us because i am working 2 jobs so hubby was the one for most of the house work .
the councelors tell us to mak the children more responsible for their chores but we dont have the luxury of waiting to do things because if we waited for the boys to bring down their laundry & it piled up we would get in trouble & the threat of the children going will be there . no one understands that we cant wait on things & think were anal for making sure tings are done .
but im sorry to rant on but its good to get it out