Well Difficult Child who was settled in with a place to live the last 6 months and had a Pastor as his payee for his SSDI, SSI has left. He met a girl online few weeks ago and left to go live with her and her father and her 17 yr old son. He left last month for a week to go live with old friend, who used and abused him in the past, but he wanted to live with them. Pastor gave him his rent money back and he left. Only to return 11 days later because his friend and girlfriend left him to go back up North. He was living in a shed while they were trying to get an apartment rented. His friend and girlfriend were suppose to come up with half the rent- they blew it on drugs. They took son's money supposedly as well with the plan to use as deposit on apartment. Never happened. They ran with his money. I suspect my son was partying with them as well. Fast forward this month, he was in hole with rent from Pastor by moving back and so Pastor took his whole check this month to get caught up. He was raging on the phone yesterday. He had no money, but Pastor would loan him money until next month but then he would be in whole again. I hung up. I shut my phone off until today. I couldn't take it. Pastor called today and said he wants to leave he is here with some guy, who is the father of the girl he met and wants to live with. She owns a house and he can rent from her and she will be his payee, etc. He asked me, what do you want me to do, tell him no and keep him here or let him go. I was sick, being forced to make this decision. Son had texted me this girl's number last night. I called her, asked her questions. She works, owns his home, will charge him 400.00 rent, have his own room, utilities included. Her father was moving in as well. What do you do- I prayed over it and decided to let him go. I called Pastor and said give him rent money back and let him go. He is 36 and we can't force him to stay. Son had threatened to go to SS and cause a scene, I was afraid he would get arrested, etc. I told him, I want no drama. If he causes me drama, I will block him from my phone for a while. I told him no calls from these people asking for money. He should have plenty of money after rent to live on. He was doing well. But he said he was lonely, Pastor is old man, and disrespects him. Of course I reminded him how he has disrespected the people who love and care for him like myself and his Aunt. He accused the man of stealing from him, on and on, excuses. I've heard it before, many times. So, I will hold fast and true, if he calls with drama. He will have to figure it out. I will block him for a while. I can't and won't go down that road again with the drama calls. He never stays anywhere to long- he always gets mad at something and wants to move on. This is his life, will always be his life. I thanked the Pastor and his wife for caring for him these last 6 months. My son somehow always meets people, good and bad and lands on his feet somehow. He is going to have to figure it out if this doesn't work out.