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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 666447" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I would see an attorney to see what your legal obligations are. Maybe Lil will weigh in.</p><p></p><p>Even if he may have a legal right to see your 10 year old, there may a way to challenge it, if there has been a difficult history.</p><p></p><p>Even if your ex may have some parental rights, there may be legal remedies.</p><p></p><p>Given the long absence from your child's life, one could argue that the best interests of your child are served by waiting until he is older to re-introduce your ex into his life, especially with the history of abandonment.</p><p></p><p>Try not to stress until you know there is a reason to do so.</p><p></p><p>While I can understand why he would want to see his child, it is troublesome that he seems not to be putting the welfare of his child before his own needs. You might have responded differently had he written, and asked how you felt and how you felt your child might respond to a visit. Or even asking you if you think it would be a positive step for him to begin to correspond with his child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 666447, member: 18958"] I would see an attorney to see what your legal obligations are. Maybe Lil will weigh in. Even if he may have a legal right to see your 10 year old, there may a way to challenge it, if there has been a difficult history. Even if your ex may have some parental rights, there may be legal remedies. Given the long absence from your child's life, one could argue that the best interests of your child are served by waiting until he is older to re-introduce your ex into his life, especially with the history of abandonment. Try not to stress until you know there is a reason to do so. While I can understand why he would want to see his child, it is troublesome that he seems not to be putting the welfare of his child before his own needs. You might have responded differently had he written, and asked how you felt and how you felt your child might respond to a visit. Or even asking you if you think it would be a positive step for him to begin to correspond with his child. [/QUOTE]
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