What I thought was going to be a much more difficult weekend. My s2bx brought girlfriend up to our family vacation home in VT for the weekend, just before it closes this Friday. I am so angry that he brought her there because it was OUR vacation home and I knew he was trying to bring her up there a few weeks ago and didn't. I was so relieved when I found out she wasn't going, but he had to make sure to get her up there. He built this cabin. I decorated it. It was his dream that I didn't enjoy as much as him because he went up there mostly for snowmobiling. I hate the cold!! The summers were absolutley beautiful and I could sit on the front deck for hours looking at the lake and the mountains. He has ruined yet another beautiful memory for me. It wasn't enough that she been in my home of 23 years, she had to make sure to be a part of the vacation home too before it's gone. I guess I should look at it this way. This probably isn't the first other women he had there, but it is the first one I know about. I am angry, but I didn't allow it to ruin my weekend. Maybe because this cabin has put a lot of distance between us and probably contributed to problems in our marriage. It's a 5 hour drive to get there. With my job I could only go every few months, but because s2bx is self employed, he spent many many weekends there without me. I guess it was more his vacation home then a family vacation home. Oh well. Yet another thing to put in the past.