I had an appointment to get my hair cut and right when I am walking out the door...RING! RING!...surprise! Tyler's school calls; I have to go pick him up because he was calling his teacher 'fat' and the other students 'gay'. This is not the first time he has had this type of behavior with the name calling. Needless to say, I am not waiting on my husband to call me to discuss sending him to a group home, this is the last, final straw, and we just came home from the intake center; I am waiting on them to call me with an appointment to inprocess him. He is in his room right now, I don't doubt that he is happy and feeling that he won because he got out of school again. God forbid he actually has to follow rules and any kind of structure. I get the feeling that he is already wondering what is in store for him now; all I heard going home was "am I going to a group home?" "Do they have rules?" "why?"...What will it take for him to realize that he cannot act this way?