And this morning she got up and was getting ready, and right when it was time to go, she came down with a "migraine" Yes, I put it in quotes. I just never know with difficult child. She always has invisible illnesses. She wanted me to take her after I got back from dropping off a huge donation to the children's hospital from the rescue I work with. Nice try sweety. I do not have to be there until after 10 this morning. So, I told her her options were to go and try to make it through, or she could stay home until husband had to leave for work, and he could drop her. He usually leave around 8;30-8:45. So she chose to have husband take her. I am at the point now that I just do not believe a word that comes out of her mouth. I just hate that. I feel like every single word out of her mouth is a lie. Why so they do this? I just want to smack her upside the head and say get over it. We have had the talk that other people go to school with illnesses, and that when she has a job, she cannot do this. And the response I get it "Mom, you just don't understand. Mine is way worse than anyone elses." Sound familiar to any of you? husband is going to be VERY unhappy when I tell him he has to take her. He really has nothing to do with her, and when his routine gets out of order... I will be blamed for this. Because since I do not work, difficult child is my responsibility while work is his. So, he can't be responsible for her too. I hae offered daily to switch with him. I keep telling him he has the easier of the 2. He vehemently disagrees.