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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 639551" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Relax. This isn't your problem. It is between your daughter and B. If she kicks her butt, she kicks her butt. If you want peace, don't even ask her about it. Shut your ears if she starts telling you about it. This is one of those things that does not concern you as you are not a part of it and you can't change it. When 37 starts b****g about his ex, I tune it out and sing in my head, "La, la, la, I'm not listening." I mean, I've heard it enough and I can't control his ex and, truth be told, HE MARRIED HER. That's why he has to share his child with her. Trust me, everyone tactfully tried to get him to think hard before he tied the knot, but did he listen? Is the Pope Catholic?</p><p></p><p>B was probably always like she is, but you just saw the good in her or she put on a great act. difficult children are classic at charming goodhearted people so that they can get a temporary invite (they realize it won't last) so that they can cut your screen, drive your car, be able to be as irresponsible as their difficult child hearts desire. Her own parents might have called t he cops. If my kids had done that, guess who would have been called? Nope, not Ghostbusters!!! I did call the cops on my daughter when I found her smoking weed in our house at fifteen and she was put on probation. I was hopi9ng it would help her.</p><p></p><p>I would file the "B Saga" under "Bad Experiences That I Never Want to Think About Again" and let it be a learning experience. Kids are not normally thrown out of their homes because of Bad Daddy and Mommy. It is usually because they are completely out of control and impossible to live with and even dangerous. They have probably had hundreds of chances to straighten out, but didn't. It probably broke their parents hearts to make B leave. There are two sides to every story.</p><p></p><p>I would stop calling her B. I'd call her Bee. She shore STUNG you. Now do something nice for yourself and try to remember, there is nothing you can do about what your daugher and Beesting do and worrying about their drama is pointless and not even your business. Cross Beesting out of your life and move on. We all live and learn <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>Take care and certainly vent if you get overly stressed.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 639551, member: 1550"] Relax. This isn't your problem. It is between your daughter and B. If she kicks her butt, she kicks her butt. If you want peace, don't even ask her about it. Shut your ears if she starts telling you about it. This is one of those things that does not concern you as you are not a part of it and you can't change it. When 37 starts b****g about his ex, I tune it out and sing in my head, "La, la, la, I'm not listening." I mean, I've heard it enough and I can't control his ex and, truth be told, HE MARRIED HER. That's why he has to share his child with her. Trust me, everyone tactfully tried to get him to think hard before he tied the knot, but did he listen? Is the Pope Catholic? B was probably always like she is, but you just saw the good in her or she put on a great act. difficult children are classic at charming goodhearted people so that they can get a temporary invite (they realize it won't last) so that they can cut your screen, drive your car, be able to be as irresponsible as their difficult child hearts desire. Her own parents might have called t he cops. If my kids had done that, guess who would have been called? Nope, not Ghostbusters!!! I did call the cops on my daughter when I found her smoking weed in our house at fifteen and she was put on probation. I was hopi9ng it would help her. I would file the "B Saga" under "Bad Experiences That I Never Want to Think About Again" and let it be a learning experience. Kids are not normally thrown out of their homes because of Bad Daddy and Mommy. It is usually because they are completely out of control and impossible to live with and even dangerous. They have probably had hundreds of chances to straighten out, but didn't. It probably broke their parents hearts to make B leave. There are two sides to every story. I would stop calling her B. I'd call her Bee. She shore STUNG you. Now do something nice for yourself and try to remember, there is nothing you can do about what your daugher and Beesting do and worrying about their drama is pointless and not even your business. Cross Beesting out of your life and move on. We all live and learn :) Take care and certainly vent if you get overly stressed. [/QUOTE]
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