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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 694068" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Boy, Im sorry. What s mess. My first bit of advice is to stay calm in spite of the storm. im learning that we can't think clearly when our mind is racing or our body is shaking. calm yourself before you act. There are options. Maybe tell your husband to leave it to you as he has been unhelpful. You dont need him yelling about this.</p><p></p><p>First of all, hopefully daughter doesnt have a key. Lock your house good before you leave it. If possible make sure she doesn't get inside. Obviously , if she has a key, she can get in...lock up anything you think shee may take, if she is one who may steal.</p><p></p><p>To lower your level of guilt, write down options, including addresses and phone numbers of nearby womans shelters and homeless shelters and food pantries and the department of human services so she knows where to go to get government services.</p><p></p><p>Do not let her stay with you. once she resides there she could be hard to remove per tenant laws. If she wont leave today you may have to call the police. Yes,its horrible and hard. But it could be worse if she stays. You deserve a peaceful house. If she is over 18, parent or not, she is an adult and you dont have to take care of her anymore. And should not.</p><p></p><p>Hand her your list. She then has resources/alternatives. It is up to her to use them. You have done all you can. Don't lose your marriage over this daughter. And actually I keep my phone off while I'm asleep. There is nothing I can do even if something happens in the middle of the night..I turn it on when I wake up</p><p></p><p>I have work, but hoping you get more, better advice and am so sorry about this. Take deep breaths. There are solutions.bStand dtrong,blike you are...strong.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 694068, member: 1550"] Boy, Im sorry. What s mess. My first bit of advice is to stay calm in spite of the storm. im learning that we can't think clearly when our mind is racing or our body is shaking. calm yourself before you act. There are options. Maybe tell your husband to leave it to you as he has been unhelpful. You dont need him yelling about this. First of all, hopefully daughter doesnt have a key. Lock your house good before you leave it. If possible make sure she doesn't get inside. Obviously , if she has a key, she can get in...lock up anything you think shee may take, if she is one who may steal. To lower your level of guilt, write down options, including addresses and phone numbers of nearby womans shelters and homeless shelters and food pantries and the department of human services so she knows where to go to get government services. Do not let her stay with you. once she resides there she could be hard to remove per tenant laws. If she wont leave today you may have to call the police. Yes,its horrible and hard. But it could be worse if she stays. You deserve a peaceful house. If she is over 18, parent or not, she is an adult and you dont have to take care of her anymore. And should not. Hand her your list. She then has resources/alternatives. It is up to her to use them. You have done all you can. Don't lose your marriage over this daughter. And actually I keep my phone off while I'm asleep. There is nothing I can do even if something happens in the middle of the night..I turn it on when I wake up I have work, but hoping you get more, better advice and am so sorry about this. Take deep breaths. There are solutions.bStand dtrong,blike you are...strong. [/QUOTE]
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