I'm back and it's been a while. I put my child out in February 2016 and it's been relatively peaceful without her here. I say relatively because I did get a visit from her once and the lady that she is staying with came over with a truck load of BS and my daughter went off on me because she was put out and refuses to take any of the responsibilities for why I put her out. She thought I was playing with her and that surely I'd let her come back. She's faked 2 seizures and has racked up a mountain of hospital bills that were covered by insurance, thank God. She's asked to come home now twice and I've told her no each time and to continue to work and save her money so she can get her own place and transportation. I know she is working, don't know if she's saving money or is even close to getting her own place. I had dinner with her once and she looked emaciated, had the worse clothes on that she own and is still way too concerned about others, social media and this disrespectful boy she is now broken up with. I was really heartbroken after seeing her because her life didn't and doesn't have to be this way but I don't know how to help her anymore after all the lies, disrespect and her stealing from me. I still worry about her and am not sure if or when I'll a call telling me something devastating. Now I'm writing because I'm still very stressed out even with her not being here there still things going on that affect me and my sanity. The lady that she lives with calls me at least once or twice a week either stating something that my daughter is doing that she doesn't like or with some plea for help or some type of negative update about her. I entertained her calls initially but now when she calls I don't answer. This lady leaves these long winded messages that are so long the answering machine will cut off. Now when the phone rings it stresses me out because I never know when she is going to call and what she is going to say about my daughter. The lady's son was my daughters boyfriend they've broken up now but my daughter still lives with the lady. I don't know how she got mixed up with this group of dramatic misfits but she's there and Lord knows what is going on. I thought the lady was ok but now I feel like my daughter should get away from them. She has been in two accidents since she's been with them and this lady son doesn't live with her but she's allowing my daughter to stay with her. Strange and weird. The lady said she put her son out because he hit her and because he called her a . So I'm thinking what is he going to do to my daughter if he clearly doesn't care about or respect his mother? The lady charges my child rent and gas money for taking her to work. The one good thing about her being with this lady is that my child is going to work. My daughter called me Sunday, left a message that she wanted to talk. I called her back and braced myself for what she might say. She wanted to come back home until she receives money from a settlement from one of the accidents she was in. I told her no and to see if she could stay with one of her friends until she could get her own place. She said I was missing the point and hung up. The phone rang again and her ex-boyfriend left a message basically telling me off, cussing me out and telling me F' me that I sucked as a mother. I blocked his number. I emailed my child and told her don't call me anymore and I'd keep praying for her. Hours later, I thought about what occurred with the phone call from her ex and I reached out to her again via email and told her she needed to leave there and stay with someone else until she can afford to get her own place. I offered to help her move when she is ready but coming back home was not an option. I haven't heard back from her. The lady called me again today with some long winded message wanting to talk to me and meeting me somewhere and that my child lost her license and she's sick and needs help and needs to go to the hospital at some point for help.... I'm very TIRED of this crap! I don't want to block this lady from calling but I feel like if I don't I'm going to lose my mind. My daughter is not here but I'm still dealing with her BS with others involved now. The only reason I haven't block the lady from calling is so I at least know what's going on with her. Now, it's all too much and this lady calls me like a child telling on another child. I want to scream at her each time she calls...."What in the HELL do you want me to do?" You are letting this 21 year old live with you and you choose to deal with her BS, why do you feel the need to keep telling me everything that happens with her?????? Please give some insight on how to deal with this latest round of crap that keeps occurring. I'm at my wits end on how to deal with this other than to keep ignoring this as best I can or completely cutting all communications with this lady and my daughter to avoid the stress and drama that comes each time either of them call or try to communicate with me. Is this ever going to stop? Will my daughter ever get her damn life together?