Well... Everything you guys told me has transpired. She was trying to be remorseful, then she wants to explain, now she's yelling and cursing and demanding and threating to take me to court to get "her money" which is left over child support money. I have been holding this money for when she gets her life together to help with a future apartment or decent car or anything she may need in the future since she didn't want to go to college. This last bit of child support money was for her college education. She's already wasted $16,000 of this money earning a 0.0 freshman year and now has wasted $2,300 by stealing the card and using it for unauthorized purchases. She has been in contact with my mom, my sister and my husband pleading for them to talk to me and giving several different stories. Let her tell it, she is living in car, no money and she is cold and hungry. Another story has her with a new job, somewhere to stay, a way to get to work and doing well. She just told me today that she has two jobs, about to move into a house and working on getting a car. Yeah right. I got a letter from Florida Dept. of Transportation yesterday letting me know I had tolls to pay during my time there in January. I was not in Florida, she was! I didn't know about this. I text her and ask her why she as in Florida and why wasn't I aware of this. She called and we had a blow out! She wanted to explain why she was in Florida and I told her I really didn't want to hear it because I knew she was going to lie. She tried to justify her lies by saying I over react and that her issues were because of me. Then she went on to tell me that she wanted her money and that she had a right to it. I told her she would thank me late for not giving it to her to waste. Which she clearly showed that she would ass that money off in a matter of months if she got it now and would not have anything to show for it. For two weeks now, I don't know what I'm going to come home to in the mail. It's mostly garbage from China. I've been able to sell some of the clothes and shoes. The conversation ended with me telling her it's her life and she could go to hell. I went on her Twitter page to see what she's been saying about her life and living situation. She tells her life story on Twitter and it's mostly for attention trying to be something she's not. She has said F' me and thanked several of her friends for being there for her but nothing about being homeless or sleeping in a car. There are nudes of her on there and it's shameful that she feels lie she has to show her body to get attention. She has eluded to being a stripper and made comments about being told to strip getting off work at a certain time. I'm inclined to believe this because of some the items she ordered with the credit card--lingerie, waist chains, chokers, whips, gag ball, fuzzy handcuffs--stripper/dominatrix type stuff. Needless to say, each day I have no idea what I'm going to find out or what trick bag she going to come out of next. I think the threats of taking me to court for child support is just that threats because that would require her actually doing something adult like. I'm braced for more ridiculousness from her. She seems really desperate. I'm really pissed that she would even think of taking me to court for any reason. Any words of wisdom or insight are welcomed.