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<blockquote data-quote="detachingmother" data-source="post: 680163" data-attributes="member: 20063"><p>First, where do you live? Where I live, Michigan, there's no law saying we have to give our kids the child support. Here, at least I think it's this way, it's for living expenses, clothes, health needs, etc, while the child is at home living with the parent with whom the child lives.</p><p></p><p>I never got child support, but I've also never heard of a mother saving it all for when the child becomes an adult, or having to hand it over to the child, period.</p><p></p><p>She's sounds like she's going off the rails, and either needs to stop acting like a "spoiled" little girl (sorry for lack of a better way to say it), and straighten up or get it together.</p><p></p><p>I haven't read any other of your posts, and not sure how old your daughter is, but if she's claiming to be "stripping" I am assuming she is of age. Horrible choice by the way...obviously.</p><p></p><p>Sounds like she really believes she's entitled, when it sounds to me like it's more of a gift.</p><p></p><p>If I ever did receive child support, it would be to go as part of household and regular living expenses, to replace the income that would normally be coming from the parent who was absent from the home.</p><p></p><p>Sounds like you are doing the best you can with what you have.</p><p></p><p>I'd probably be pretty upset and say to daughter, "go ahead, draw up your court paper work and let's go!!" Meanwhile get it together or you will not be getting your "gift" of money from left over child support. I could be way off here, because I've never gotten child support, but seems like the judges would "laugh" and scold her. </p><p></p><p>I am sorry, maybe I am confused. LOL. I'm probably not much help, as I think of child support as something different than it sounds you think of it. Maybe it's different where you live.</p><p></p><p>Is this how child support is? We hand it over to the children to do as they please. hmmmmm</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="detachingmother, post: 680163, member: 20063"] First, where do you live? Where I live, Michigan, there's no law saying we have to give our kids the child support. Here, at least I think it's this way, it's for living expenses, clothes, health needs, etc, while the child is at home living with the parent with whom the child lives. I never got child support, but I've also never heard of a mother saving it all for when the child becomes an adult, or having to hand it over to the child, period. She's sounds like she's going off the rails, and either needs to stop acting like a "spoiled" little girl (sorry for lack of a better way to say it), and straighten up or get it together. I haven't read any other of your posts, and not sure how old your daughter is, but if she's claiming to be "stripping" I am assuming she is of age. Horrible choice by the way...obviously. Sounds like she really believes she's entitled, when it sounds to me like it's more of a gift. If I ever did receive child support, it would be to go as part of household and regular living expenses, to replace the income that would normally be coming from the parent who was absent from the home. Sounds like you are doing the best you can with what you have. I'd probably be pretty upset and say to daughter, "go ahead, draw up your court paper work and let's go!!" Meanwhile get it together or you will not be getting your "gift" of money from left over child support. I could be way off here, because I've never gotten child support, but seems like the judges would "laugh" and scold her. I am sorry, maybe I am confused. LOL. I'm probably not much help, as I think of child support as something different than it sounds you think of it. Maybe it's different where you live. Is this how child support is? We hand it over to the children to do as they please. hmmmmm [/QUOTE]
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