Finally, after 2 years of arguing on and off. The high's and low's of our relationship are so umm crazy! When it's good it's amazing, when it's bad you wanna ring his neck.
I"m happy to say and i hope i'm not jumping the gun but we are making way in therapy together. We started couples counseling. The past 3 days has been the best 3 days we have ever had. Granted it's just 3 days, but i'm looking for 4 and 5 and well you get it!
We played volleyball with the kids the past few days before dinner, his personality really shines through bigtime joking and being crazy with-them and lighthearted. I thought that guy was gone for sure.
It's something about knowing that hey this is it if we dont' figure this out compromise on our issues we hit a wall with this is it. He puts forth so much effort in the sessions, says alot of junk too lol. Yet we are learning to leave it in the session and continue on with our night after it's over.
I truly hope this is a sign that we're on the right path finally. That would be nice. Therapist actually said we are well matched, and have been under an enormous amt of presure the past few years with all we have dealt with in a new relationship and maybe now we're ready to make us the focus of it all and not everything else. hmm not sure how to do that yet we are trying and i'm exhausted by the way. I've spent time with him each night the past week when he gets home and i'm downright walking into walls and he's off working 18 hour days like it's nothing lol.
just nervous now, i'm returning to work monday and work stresses me alot. I have to learn how to draw my boundaries and if they want me they'll keep me yet it's gotta be more on my terms and protecting my time here at home.
here's hoping! just wanted to share the continuing soga
I"m happy to say and i hope i'm not jumping the gun but we are making way in therapy together. We started couples counseling. The past 3 days has been the best 3 days we have ever had. Granted it's just 3 days, but i'm looking for 4 and 5 and well you get it!
We played volleyball with the kids the past few days before dinner, his personality really shines through bigtime joking and being crazy with-them and lighthearted. I thought that guy was gone for sure.
It's something about knowing that hey this is it if we dont' figure this out compromise on our issues we hit a wall with this is it. He puts forth so much effort in the sessions, says alot of junk too lol. Yet we are learning to leave it in the session and continue on with our night after it's over.
I truly hope this is a sign that we're on the right path finally. That would be nice. Therapist actually said we are well matched, and have been under an enormous amt of presure the past few years with all we have dealt with in a new relationship and maybe now we're ready to make us the focus of it all and not everything else. hmm not sure how to do that yet we are trying and i'm exhausted by the way. I've spent time with him each night the past week when he gets home and i'm downright walking into walls and he's off working 18 hour days like it's nothing lol.
just nervous now, i'm returning to work monday and work stresses me alot. I have to learn how to draw my boundaries and if they want me they'll keep me yet it's gotta be more on my terms and protecting my time here at home.
here's hoping! just wanted to share the continuing soga
