I saw sections on the forum for under 5 and over 18 but nothing for in between. lol I recently learned that my son was labled wit O.D.D. (Opositional Defiant Disorder)... which can basically be ANY kid. Apparently when they put this on him three years back no one thougt to tell me or the fact that we live in CA so I guess his records are none of his parent's business?? I swear he is a good kid for the most part, other than when he is placed in public school. I've gotten compliments his entire life about how well behaved he is and well spoken, he is smart but wastes time on kids that are bad. Like one kid that would say racist remark, but can't truly be around it since hey were used out of context (improperly). So, I banned him from that kid and the list goes on, he attracts some real winners... Rigt now I have im helping my aunt and learning good old fashioned respect! He will be stacking her wood, pulling the weeds in her garden, and being reminded what respect is (she's in her 60s-70s? So it is the old time respect and not te stuff they are seeing on TV. I am confused what is normal preteen stuff since kids here can't even play tetherball, football, and anything that might lead to touching another person/child. He even got in trouble along with another boy for pretending! .~*~._.~*~.BEVERLY.~*~._.~*~. "Be who you are and say what you mean, because those who mind dont matter, and those who matter dont mind."