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<blockquote data-quote="UKMummy" data-source="post: 697792" data-attributes="member: 19939"><p>Hi wonderful people.</p><p>I'd really appreciate your thoughts...</p><p>Son and I are back to no contact again. He lives in a bedsit and couple of streets from my house. He instigated contact again in April. He wanted his family back, it was the most important thing to him etc. Within a couple of visits he started to no show. He would text and ask for dinner (I will not give him money) I would cook his dinner and he would just not come, no text, call or anything. Then family meal out where he was rude to me. He sent me a text a week later saying that he was in a bad place, everything I do hurts him, he no longer feels any love for me and that he thinks bad things. I text him back saying that I truly believe his life will not get better until he stops smoking weed. But I knew he could do it. I had literature for him and would go with him to the docs etc. He didn't like that advise and never responded. </p><p>I did message a week,or so later asking if I could see him. He didn't want to.</p><p>My problem now is the enormous guilt I feel at having no contact with him. What do I do? Honestly, I don't want contact with the way he is now but at the same time I do not want to do more damage by not contacting him.</p><p>Please please let me know your thoughts. I know that many of you have probably struggled with contact/no contact. This is literally consuming me X</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="UKMummy, post: 697792, member: 19939"] Hi wonderful people. I'd really appreciate your thoughts... Son and I are back to no contact again. He lives in a bedsit and couple of streets from my house. He instigated contact again in April. He wanted his family back, it was the most important thing to him etc. Within a couple of visits he started to no show. He would text and ask for dinner (I will not give him money) I would cook his dinner and he would just not come, no text, call or anything. Then family meal out where he was rude to me. He sent me a text a week later saying that he was in a bad place, everything I do hurts him, he no longer feels any love for me and that he thinks bad things. I text him back saying that I truly believe his life will not get better until he stops smoking weed. But I knew he could do it. I had literature for him and would go with him to the docs etc. He didn't like that advise and never responded. I did message a week,or so later asking if I could see him. He didn't want to. My problem now is the enormous guilt I feel at having no contact with him. What do I do? Honestly, I don't want contact with the way he is now but at the same time I do not want to do more damage by not contacting him. Please please let me know your thoughts. I know that many of you have probably struggled with contact/no contact. This is literally consuming me X [/QUOTE]
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